What makes you sad?

Me? The fact that I don't have a GF. I see all of my friends with their girls, and am constantly overwhelmed by the culture we have today which constantly reminds us of what losers singletons like me are. It upsets me. I've kissed a girl and am not a virgin (well I've had a BJ, and fingered a girl, nothing else, but that counts imo) - So it's not the sexual side, but more the love and comfort that I feel I am missing :(

Anyways, nothing I can do about it really.

What about you /lounge/ ?

Stop basing your happiness on the validation of others

Faggot

>>2
I don't think I am as such though, it's more of an involuntary thing which comes about through a natural human urge for affection and intimacy for a member of the opposite sex. Not much I can do besides convince myself that I am some kind of robot devoid of any emotion or drink a load of alcohol.

no bf
all this college debt
work all day
can't be free to do what I want

when will this misery end?

>>2
I know your keeping with the tradition around here by ending your post by calling me a faggot, which leads me to believe that you are not at all interesting in actually taking part in sharing your 'feels' with us - but please do try. It helps me hearing about others who also suffer.

>>4
Can I ask, are you a girl or boy? Seems like me have the same problem, albeit with regards to different genders. I know that feeling of working all day and feeling trapped. Wouldn't it be nice to be able to live truly free without prostituting our time away to the man just so that we don't end up on the streets.

What do you guys to do cope with the pain?

Been single for the past 5 years and ive only fucked 2 girls since. One was last night and ti be completely honest I like being single more then being ina relationship. Stop giving a fuck about what others are doing and focus on yourself.

>>6
Girl. It's like a downward spiral. Especially working with older people - very depressing.

I play video games, masturbate, and insult people on world4ct to cope.

>>8
Easier said than done for some of us, I believe. But good for you being able to cope well and actually be happier without a relationship. How did you learn to do that? Or did it come about through so much bitterness that eventually your heart gave up believing something beautiful with a girl was possible?

>>9
Have you ever had a bf? Yes I know what you mean. Like a spiral that you can never escape from. And I hear you on working whit older people. Constantly reminds you of your mortality and fragile existence. But on the other hand perhaps allows you to appreciate some of the smaller things that others take for granted? Such as the ability to be cognitive. I wonder if there is an honest way to discover happiness without having to change things in drastic ways.

I have no ambitions. I don't care about not having a gf, or at least that's what I tell myself. I just wish I was more ambitious.

>>10
I can see how those things could cope one cope. Or at least distract the mind. I guess I am at that funny position where I am not quite yet able to fully give up hope and eliminate my mind from the thinking that what I desire is possible. I am kind of on an edge. I have almost given up, and am very close to just living a life of insulting people on 4ct and playing video games - but it all feels to much like giving up at this stage. There is still some light left in the tunnel.

>>13
I feel you. I feel the same way. For me it's more that I am too lazy to have any real ambition. I just can't be bothered really.

>>12
I had a boyfriend for about a year in high school. It wasn't much. He was an aspie that wanted a "normal" realationship (basically wanted me to be bossy and outgoing). Didn't work when he found out how quiet I was. I just want someone to exist with. To share memories and the like. It's been lonely since then. It sounds gay, but it hurts my heart sometimes.