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Been together with my girlfriend for eight months now

1 Name: Anonymous : 2015-08-04 15:26
I need your help /lounge/ you've never let me down before.

I have a girlfriend and we have been together for eight months now. Now I'm in college and I have a class with a woman who happens to be married. We hit it off and now it is to the point where we are thinking of leaving our respective others. My problem is that we (me and my girlfriend) are about to move into a town house soon. We have vacated our old apartment for the time being and chose to stay with her parents for a week. Now on to my question, should I stay or should I go and how do I choose to leave if I do?
2 Name: Anonymous : 2015-08-04 16:01
Well two options: Come clean or lie you back teeth off.

Personally in that situation I would choose the latter but I'm a coward and working on it.

Anyway, whatever you do just try to learn from it because relationships can fuck people up. Especially by betrayal.
3 Name: Anonymous : 2015-08-04 19:17
>>1
Don't move in with someone you don't want to be with. Just make a fucking decision you degenerate fuck. One or the other. Either way you deserve the worst.
4 Name: Anonymous : 2015-08-05 03:38
>>1
what the fuck are you doing op? what the fuck man? look, you were supposed to fuck the chick in class. not fall in love with her. shes married? great. even better because she has reasons to keep quiet. you could have had both op but you fucked it up. man youre stupid...
5 Name: Anonymous : 2015-08-05 14:29
>>2
I plan on ending things, I think I am trying to figure out when is the best time to do it. Im not happy and she wants things I dont want anymore.

>>3
Im just waiting for the proper time to break it off, I wont cheat we have not done anything yet but we realize there is something there.

>>4
I would rather not cheat i would rather end thing before that point.
6 Name: Anonymous : 2015-08-05 17:16
>>5
wait. you suddenly want to be mr moral while running off with a married woman? please...
7 Name: Anonymous : 2015-08-05 17:33
>>1
1)You've never loved your girlfriend your actual girlfriend or you wouldnt be looking that hard for another woman.

2)You only like the other woman because of the danger. Once shes the stable one youll lose the thrill.

Dump them both, wait till you are mature enough to be in a relationship
8 Name: Anonymous : 2015-08-05 18:00
Stop cheatin you fucking bastard..... you austic pecker lover
9 Name: Anonymous : 2015-08-05 18:39
>>5
Sorry I should have clarified, I assumed you were leaving her anyway(again personally I would leave both, lie to booth, and hope I learn not to be a dick)

But shit happens, there is no perfect time, it will always interrupt something. Just pull her in an put on your serious face, once done then you can fuck whoever you want.
10 Name: Anonymous : 2015-08-05 19:05
>>1
Hi OP,

You should just continue to fuck the married girl. I mean, you aren't married.

If you think that the married girl would be a better longterm GF, you should just quit school cuz u r retarded.

Besides, if you let go of your current GF, the married girl will be instantly less attracted to you. Chicks only dig guys that are good enough to be someone else's girlfriend.
11 Name: Anonymous : 2015-08-05 19:12
>>6
We both realize we are not happy in our relationships. we have made the choice to not do anything physical or anything like that until we BOTH are single again.

>>7
1) Its possible to see when a realationship is coming to an end such as mine. You can fall out of love. She has her problems and wants and those things have not abated with time. Its simply not working.

2) No I like this woman because of who she is and and how well we get along. Our life goals match so well it amazing. At the same we sit there and talk for HOURS at a time about anything and everything. Where as my current gf and I argue about just everything.
12 Name: Anonymous : 2015-08-05 19:24
>>1
It's not not as simple as do I--stay or do-I-go, anon. People are fucking hard to live with in general. You gotta think about this new chick and if you could really dig or even stand coming home to her every day. I shared an apartment with my best mate of fucking 15 years, and realized I didn't know him until I lived with the dude. And we weren't fucking married, that adds a lot of other shit to the relationship. Do ya love this new girl, or is it just an infatuation and temporary thing that will pass when her new wears off, cause everyone's new wears off sometime man.
Your thinking of doing something heavy, dude. I'm not gonna tell ya one way or the other. All I'm saying is you better be damn sure of the one you choose man.

Best of luck to ya, bro. Hope your choice works out for ya man.
13 Name: Anonymous : 2015-08-05 19:56
>>9
I dont want to see her hurt but I do realize regardless someone will be. Be it me, my gf or the married woman and her husband. I guess im looking for that unrealistic option where everyone is happy in the end.
14 Name: Anonymous : 2015-08-06 02:22
>>11
Where as my current gf and I argue about just everything.

This is your problem, OP. You don't argue with women. You don't even let them get to that stage. I am fine with discussion, but fuck me if I am not the man in the relationship.

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