alright /lounge/ lets do this.

I think my girlfriend has aspergers.

- She never tells me she likes / loves me
- She can not really look people in the eyes, her eyes are flickering very often when she does it
- she is extremely honest
- she almost always says yes
- she has anxiety / depersonalisation sometimes
- she hates kids / dogs
- we have good sex, often, I can touch her whenever and wherever I want. we had sex even in public swimming pools with people close by
- my biggest problem: she often ignores me, she doesn't respond to my texts or takes alot of time for it, she responds extremely briefly, she barely writes to me by herself, I often feel ignored or that she doesn't love me or that I did something wrong or that I am needy. this doesn't go away, I am emotionally needy and she doesn't seem to have emotions at all except stress / frustration
- she dresses normally, paints her nails but not too fancy, she is not like autism ugly pragmatic
- when I tell her that I need this and that she changes her behavior but only for a short time
- when she drinks alcohol she changes quickly, is much more relaxed and happy, smiles more and is much more social. its very strong, the change
- she shows her affection more in acts, like putting her head on my shoulder, giving me a massage, generally if I tell her like something she does it
- she doesn't have many friends and its hard to maintain a conversation with her. when I am with her (we travelled for 5 days) we usually don't speak much and enjoy the silence
- she just never seems to seek my proximity, its drives me nuts, it makes me very unhappy and doubt myself, even after 5 months of relationship and i'm thinking of quitting for my own good, even though I adore her so much

Any advice? what do you guys think?
Maybe she is just not into me and i'm over-interpreting it because I cant face that fact. I mean we see each other 3x a week, its just not enough for me as there is barely any emotion.

c'mon there is gotta me so much autism on this board that someone needs to have some experience with this

>>1-2

To me it sounds like friends with benefits. I am like this with my boyfriend I tend to ignore him not in a hurtful way just don't want to bother with conversation. I love him but only tell him when i feel especially emotional or when he brings it up.

How about you shitstain faggots that actually use reddit go back there and stay there.

Newfag cancer like you are killing /lounge/.

>>3
but you don't have any spectrum disorders, right?

are woman really like this?

>>5
No i don't and im a guy, most women i get involved with are normal but some are like me. I find life boring and while the initial stages are nice but relationships get boring. I still care but not as much as i did. Its odd but its life. Best choice is to tell her how you feel it wont do much but you'll see where you stand.

anyone having some more profound knowledge on this matter?

>>7
could be on the spectrum... a couple of my good friends have aspergers... nothing wrong with it... they are just a bit awkward socially... and they also were often late and seem to be daydreaming or take forever in walmart things like that

girlfriend

Just because you take care of a mental patient doesn't mean that you're her boyfriend.

>>9
the mere thought gives me a stiffy.

the mere thought gives me a check 'em dubs