I'm a 26 year old male that hasn't had sex in 10 years. (not a virgin) just extreme anxiety. Only reason I lost my virginity is the girl was a freak.

Is life even worth living without getting pussy? Alright looking guy, I have turned down girls because of my anxiety.

Have money for hookers just terrified to deal with one. Anyone got over social anxiety? It has literally ruined my life.

Any help would be appreciated I know someone else here has dealt with is. It is why I lurk /lounge/ I can have conversations without actually dealing with people.

>>1

anxiety

You break down at any form of communication because you instantly have the need to feel like everything is judged upon. Stop fucking making excuses you sad cunt seriously. EVERY one goes through the awkward moments, EVERY one gets shut down, EVERY one gets the same treatment. The only difference is everyone is out having a fucking go at everything, which also creates social meetings, life experience, life changing moments. No wonder you haven't had sex since 16 you faggot. Think of a girl version of yourself atm, would you want to fucking know her?

CHANGE ONLY HAPPENS WHEN YOU TAKE ACTIONS. ITS AS SIMPLE AS FUCKING THAT CUNT.

I HATE PEOPLE LIKE YOU. MEEEHHHHH MAAAHHH ANXIETY HAS STOPPED MEEHHH..... YOU STOPPED YOURSELF YOU SAD CUNT.NO MOVE ON AND GET A FUCKING LIFE

>>3
And that's the worst part I know what is wrong with me. I am just too afraid to bring it up. It must be nice being normal.

Everyone knows you'd rather play fucking your asshole you cumloving aids incubator.

>>1
The only way anxiety goes its way is if you let it. Don't sit there and embrace it like its going to make things better, get out there a fucking get a life... You won't be shit in this world giving in, stand the fuck up and go for it. Whether that means you fuck a hooker to relieve sexual tension who the fuck cares. It's up to you to decide you raging faggot.

>>4
I had anxiety for like 4 years, think it was because I wasn't happy with myself idk though tbh. anyway lost weight, made lots of friends, started going out & that fixed it for me. Meds never worked, neither did psychologists.

it also ended when puberty really kicked in though @ like 17 so unless you're a super late bloomer.. Idk.

>>6
I know, and I know it started from my ex telling everyone I have a small dick. And that is true how do you take a girl home just to disappoint her. I just cant even imagine the embarrassment. We all we're not born equal. I know this bitch is thinking about jemall or tyrese or whatever.

>>8
Who gives a fuck if some bitch called your dick small? Honestly if everyone is shallow enough to care that much about a dick size, you'd be fucked right now, but not everyone is like that. How the fuck does your dick size mean you become a sissy bitch that'll never amount to anything. For God's sake stop shoving the blame on every other fucking thing that passes you by, you're sounding like fucking Tumblr.

When you suffer from social anxiety, you have a limit. Once you've suffered to your limit from your anxiety, you will start to realize that there is only one option. Manning up. I'm 19 and i'm already tired as fuck of having this shitty fucking anxiety. Go watch RSDTyler on youtube, he has helped me out a WHOLE BUNCH.
He talks a lot about fear of approaching, relationships and just learning women in general and he can basically change your mindset on things.
Oh and my personal tip: Get yourself a motto for yourself, mine is '' feel the fear, but do it anyway''. So whenever i'm doubting something or scared to do something i just do it when i think of that motto.
Good luck, remember that you're still young.

>>10
not OP
If I'm anxious to do something I'll just start by counting down from 5 or 10, depending how anxious I am. if I don't do it when I get to 0 I punish myself through exercise or some shit later on. I sit there counting until I do it though, no matter how many tries it takes.

Bro. Hookers. You're paying them to not give a fuck. Any cunt can go to a bar and pick up a slut, neckbeard or not. You're paying a hooker to leave, with no strings attached, not for sex. Just man up and pay a professional. Fuck knows how much cash I've dropped on random club sluts drinks, drugs whatever, to find they're an absolute starfish in the sack. Just pay someone who gets dudes off for a living, and enjoy the best sex of your life with no expectations to go out for dinner or some shit afterwards.

>>9
I am a man I make good money and work myself to the bone. But we live in a new generation where that is not enough. Maybe I am just fucked in the head. The last girl that wanted to bang me told me she could deep throat. And my shit is like half a mouth full. I just couldn't do it. She assumed because of my stature 6'2" that I had a lap hog.

>>1
Confidence is what you need. Work out with nice guys. Sounds gay but seriously. Don't work out to get jacked to attract girls, work out to increase your confidence. It feels really good when you set a new record and other guys say good job nice lift. Since I've started working out I've definitely got bigger but the biggest change I've experienced is confidence and girls dig that.
Do you have any girls in mind?

Wow.... it's no wonder mental illness is so overlooked these days. You guys have really no fucking idea do you? Social anxiety isn't something you just get over. It's like telling an Arachnophobic "Hey you pussy, stop being scared of spiders!" Social Anxiety Disorder isn't just something that you get over. I'm fine around small groups and even small groups of strangers but as soon as I'm anywhere with a lot of people I get anxious. My blood pressure rises, I get irritated and it's like I'm on a permanent adrenaline high. It's not something I have any control over whatsoever. I'm not scared of people, I'm not scared of being judged. It's just some weird ass physiological response to being around people. It doesn't matter whether I'm on stage or in the crowd. It's the same feeling.