so /lounge/ i come for advice.

ive been talking to this girl recently and we both are completely into each other and we both feel like fate brought us together.

we have alot of the same interests that are both important to us, the career paths we wish to follow go hand in hand, we have very similar personalities and both seem to want/expect the same out of our partners.

my only huge problem is, she isnt into anal. we talked about it the other night and i told her i really love anal but she says thats her line. she thinks its gross and would be painful and has never done it with anyone. she told me she wouldnt even let me eat out her ass, which i also love doing.

so /lounge/, aside from this, this girl is really pretty much my ideal girl. i dont think i'd find someone else that shares the same expectations and interests that i do. ive been talking to a bunch of other girls lately and they are all just awful at having conversations, but this girl is great and fun to talk to.

does /lounge/ think in time i will be able to get this girl to try anal or is anal just never going to happen with her?

Are you happy with her? What's the situation that led you to ask?

You gotta eat that pussy like a queen.

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pussy

My dear boy, there is no need for language like that around here, disrespectful.

if you really love her for her then the sex stuff shouldn't be a problem. obviously it is fulfilling to be with someone you can share your sexual fascinations with, but if you're happy otherwise is that really a make or break thing?

honestly though once you get closer emotionally it should be something you can bring up in more detail. explain to her what you like about it, why you think she might like it, and ask if she could try it to make you happy. don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to do, obviously, but love is give and take. give her love and she'll take your penis in her bum.

My one and only relationship haunts me. For how beta I was, how shitty she was, how i lowered my standards and how I still was on the losing end of it.

Tell me, is it normal to have vivid fantasies of going back in time and stabbing my other self with a large instrument in front of her?