Sup /lounge/

Asked /adv/ for advice but they sluffed me so ima ask you faggots instead. I already know what youre gonna say but maybe a nugget of wisdom will slip through... hopefully.
Ill skip all the bullshit and sum this up quick

live with this girl
have strong feelings for her
she claims to feel the same way
sometimes shes loving, sometines she acts like she hates me
she has a fuck buddy but encourages me to find my own for now
neither of us wanna date yet for different reasons
me because not sure if i can trust her
her because : just broke up with ex, doesnt wanna rush into things, etc etc
i can respect this but it hurts muh heart to see her with her fuck buddy... and she doesnt really seem to care when i voice my feelings

Idk how to feel /lounge/rs. Is it a waste of time? Shes honest about everything but goddamn this is a fucked up sitch for me.

Give me your thoughts and i shall bump with sluts.

yes. she's wasting your time and stringing you along whilst you live with her probably so that she can leech of you or probably because in your betafaggyness you're doing stuff for her for free without getting anything in return.

oh anon i love you

its all a fucking scam mate. Get out, or don't come crawling back to us when she screws you over and goes back to her fuck buddy.

Why don't you suggest to her that she could be your fuck buddy for the time being? It would make sense.

in the meantime, go through all of her stuff in her room and cum on it.

>>1

just broke up with ex, doesnt wanna rush into things
she has a fuck buddy

see the contradiction?

>>3
I hope I see to live the day when women are liberated, so they don't suffer this retrograde patriarchal slut-shaming anymore.
That day everyone will get laid because no-strings-attached fucking will become the norm.

The obvious answer here is to murder the fuck buddy and wear his face as a mask while you fuck your oneitis.

>>1
Don't get attached, subdue your desire, if you want to be with her make sure she loves you more than you love her and not in an autistic way.
Otherwise get pussy and gtfo.

>>5
clearly this

>>1

live with this girl
have strong feelings for her

-Pick one. Not both.

she claims to feel the same way

-Lies... if she did feel that way you wouldn't be where you are now. The easiest way to approach it is, if you were in her shoes, would you have done the same. If the answer is no, you're being used.

sometimes shes loving, sometines she acts like she hates me

- Sorry way to broad... that's true for 100% of all the women you'll be with.

she has a fuck buddy but encourages me to find my own for now

-At least she's honest; so find one.

me because not sure if i can trust her

-There's you're answer. It doesn't matter if objectively she's 100% faithful; if your gut doesn't agree, you'll subconsciously sabotage the situation.

Cut your losses and find someone you deserve. Don't linger around it'll only stagnate and cause rot.

Asked /adv/ for advice but they sluffed me so ima ask you faggots instead.

You asked on a dead board, a fucking dead board, i will say it again a "DEAD BOARD"!

Op here.
Some more details i guess...
Weve lived together a whole week. shes been on her period and weve fucked around but no sex.
Now the fuck buddy showed up tonight and hes sleepin over, im fucking pissed off right now but it hasnt been long enough for me to totally feel out this sitch yet. I moved halfway across the country to be with her and im sleeping on the goddamn couch but i know she'll put out eventually... were currently friend status no relationship yet. Im gonna confront her tomorrow about this shit and if it doesnt go well idk what im gonna do... i just need to vent to someone i dont understand women at all

>>1,8
You can't possibly be this retarded, this whole thread is shitty b8

>>1

wants you to have another fuck buddy
loves you

I do not think she loves you annon, or has any feelings for you either ay. I guess she loves the feelings you have for her, they make her feel special raise the status for her as a woman. You know women would seduce men to chase them and then not give them a slice just for the feeling of being admiried chased after, sought and desired.

my advice. Stop caring about her, fuck sb else

sometimes when my anus is ticklish i get paranoid i have a tapeworm

>>1
Obviously she does not feel like you. And or wired to be nonexclusive. So you will never trust her. She will fuck around and never love you because she is broken like that.

>>9
Maybe i am man, i knew fully well what i was moving into though. Its hard to see it happen and i feel like im getting cucked but were not even dating. We pretty much agreed to be friends/fuck buddies but the fact that she fucked her other pal first is driving me fucking insane. If i tell her shes a whore she can play the 'were not even dating' card BUT this girl said she loved me and she wanted to work on a relationship... but seems to have forgotten that... fuck sakes

>>8

Now the fuck buddy showed up tonight and hes sleepin over,

You should have been the fuck buddy. But she didn't choose you. She choose them...
The excuse of the period conveniently ends when she wants sex doesn't it?

I moved halfway across the country to be with her and im sleeping on the goddamn couch

You shouldn't have. She's keeping you around as a safety net. Don't buy it.

she'll put out eventually

You may be right. But that just means she's a slut and isn't worth moving your ass across the country for.

Im gonna confront her tomorrow about this shit and if it doesnt go well idk what im gonna do

My advice: Don't
Don't confront her, she's made her choice pretty fucking loud and clear. Get up, and get out with no explanation, no grand confrontation, no spilling of your spaghetti, no touchy freely in hopes.
Stand by your convictions, walk out tall and proud. Fuck her and her manipulation. She's an insect amongst gods.
Figure out what you want and fucking do it. She isn't a part of that process.

Or.....

You could bitch out and be her lap dog...
Your call.

whole week

an hero

>>1

one are you fucking
two are you paying for the majority of the bills
three do you give significantly more than you get

If you aren't fucking but she has a fuck buddy but claims to love you, she's lying

If you pay for majority of bills, more time for shopping or using you to get on her feet

this hits close to home, give more than you get

my story, didn't live with the girl but she said she loved me but was in a abusive relationship so she didn't want to date just yet. She would ask and ask and ask for shit everyday, with no return on my investment. One day she ask to borrow my car for a volleyball tournament, needless to say it was hers. She comes back and she is walking with my friend and I hear, I wonder what happen to anon (me), he used to be such a sweet guy. MFW I don't know what the fuck she is talking about. I distance my self from her because bitch was talking behind by back and it was no longer worth it. A month later she comes and ask for one of my heaters, I had 2, I didn't want to give it to her but at that point I liked her roommate so i did. Talking to her roommate and I notice prenatal pills in the room. Shit.jpeg this bitch is prego. Girl I now like tells me its girl I used to like and tells me that the whole time she was prego she would just ask me for stuff like the car to go to the doctors and heater because she would get cold because her and her actual bf/fuck buddy were poorfags.

MFW she could have just ask to get a ride to the doctors instead of saying she loved me

>>14
I seen the bloody tampons and also felt it when i tried to finger her... stuck my finger in her ass instead lol. You see its not like im not getting anything but shes fucking crafty... i knew you guys would fill my head with shit and yet i asked anyways. Goddamn it

>>1
How old are you nigger, this seems retarded

no offence OP but you sound like a fucking retard

lived for a week
on couch
in love
moved cross country
fuck buddy

OP fucking stop, grow the fuck up and become a real man, not a fucking faggot like right now

the the bitch to fuck off because you said you want me but you look over me and go for a fuck buddy, like mate she has a fuck buddy over and he's sleeping in her bed... your on the couch.... grow the fuck up cunt

>>17
No OP... we're not filling your head with shit...
We're the darkest part of your mind trying to wake you up from your nightmare.
We're the unchained part of your mind that wants you to break free because the rest of you can't.
We're the voice that you already have in your head but are too afraid to admit might be true.
We, despite what you like to believe, are you.

You didn't come here to seek advice. You came here to seek courage.
You came here to seek righteous rage.
You came here to seek justice because you have been wronged, and the pretty words and kind smile has soothed over the wrong like a band-aid over a bullet wound; and you deserve that justice.

You see its not like im not getting anything

You're right.... but she's just feeding you enough to keep you around.
You don't have her bed... her fuck buddy does.
If she actually cared...
She would have said, "I'm over my period, come join me in my bed"

>>1
You're not going to change her mind about wanting to be with you, OP.

You're just making it harder on yourself by continuing to want something that you'll never have. Move on and find a real girlfriend.

If you continue, it's likely that your emotions will lose control and you'll do something that will ruin her and your life.

Op again.
Fuck my life. Because i have moved so far and have rent payed for the month im going to ride this out till may at least. I have enough cash saved up to move home whenever, and i havent invested a hell of a lot in this adventure honestly. It hurts to think shes a lying whore, but shit guys i dont even wanna believe it... fuck

>>1
I mean she was real with you, dude. Can't really ask for anything more.

You want a relationship (even if you won't admit it. Tell me you wouldn't dive in if she wanted it).
She doesn't want a relationship.
She has a fuckbuddy and frankly it's none of your damn business. Sorry it hurts bro, but your feelings are your responsibility, not hers.

She's treating you fairly.

>>22
Believe it? HABEEB IT! TWINKIE HOUSE! Also yes, move out now that rent is gone, a lost cause. Just leave suddenly in the night, no note, no nothing. Just go home.