Girlfriend ended our relationship of 9 years 2 weeks ago
She's still living with me
She went out drinking all night the other night with a friend
when she got back, after pressing her, she admitted she was at her male coworker's house drinking and getting fingerbanged until 6AM
this dude is mexican and I want to get him deported. I don't really care if he's actually illegal or not, so how would I go about doing this?

tl;dr: Ex is a whore, getting her mexican fucktoy deported

>>1 Me and my girlfriend decided we would slow our relationship down, like take a break, for a month or so because Ive got Masters degree exams in 4 weeks and have to spend all my time studying. She was at a party last night and she gave her number to a few guys, one of them asked her to go out for drinks with them tonight and she said he's and she's going to hang out with her Friday. I get that were on a break but I cant help thinking shes being unloyal as fuck, we only decided to take a break on Saturday. I feel for you.

>>2
Well I fucked up my post. One guy asked her to for drinks tonight and shes going and another asked her to hang out with him on friday.

lol!

She is cheating on you or will be very soon. and btw, "taking a break" is a free pass to fuck other dudes to women. So you might as well just break up with her if she won't help you and support you during your exams time. What a fucking dyke lol

Just cut her out of your life and move on, you'll do yourself a HUGE favor.

This happens when you are not completely sure that is the right person.

>>1
OP dont worry, ive just broken up with my gf a week ago and she didnt even say bye to me :(

I've learnt that there are other girls, literally go on a dating website, go out, go meet a girl anything, get her off your mind for a while, i know she will stick in your mind for a while, but ive met this really pretty girl and i have a good feeling man, shes definitely better looking than my ex

I'm going to give a bit of advice for the kind of guys that find themselves in these threads. Often you're lonely, don't understand why people are drifting away from you, can't figure out why you can't find the right group of friends.

A piece of advice we all hear is "be yourself". It's so beaten into us that it doesn't have any meaning anymore. But why are we constantly told it, what value coud it possibly have?

It means that, at the moment, people perceive you as "unnatural". You're not acting how you really feel on the inside, and they know. Tell me this, do you find yourself constantly checking how you say things to appear more masculine? Or maybe you stop yourself from telling a joke because you don't want to appear weird?Maybe you're talking to a girl, and you subconsciously want to come off as some Ryan Gosling caricature instead of the autistic faggot you are.

But the thing is, everyone knows that's not you. They know you're actually this autistic faggot, and the fact that they're talking to you means they like you for it and are willing to give you a chance. But you've let them down. You're just a boring, unapprochable silent weirdo.

This post is 100% me projecting. But holy fuck has realising this improved my life. A lot of the above may be so beaten into you for so long that you don't even realise it. That's what happened to me. But just be your self. People will love you for it. Lose your barriers of expression (within reason), and just be your fucking self.