Ok /lounge/ I need some help dealing with my girlfriend. We get along great, have great sex, and are pretty honest with each other. However, something keeps coming up. She keeps making remarks about me getting a dildo up in my own ass.

She's mentioned it several times and at one point seemed kinda adament about it happening. Now she's really iffy about it all of a sudden and I don't know what she's wants. I've even directly asked her and she said she didn't know. ended up saying the general idea is hot, she just doesn't know if it'd be the same for me. Any suggestions on how to get a direct answer from her, or something?

Honestly, its not as bad as it sounds.

Suggest anal for her? Or something that'd make her think about it.

>>2
not really scared of doing it, just want a direct answer from her to know if she wants me to or not.
and we've done anal before, she likes it.

I actually did french kiss her after I came in her mouth, that wasn't difficult nor was it hard. I tasted the cum and it wasn't bad at all, most importantly she liked it.

But when I want to do the same with her pussy, I just can't get myself to do it. It seems like a fucking turn on right now, but the moment I cum inside her - dead turn off.

You're hung up on the penis.

Gender is all a mindset and a reaction to hormones.

How about this for a mindfuck, let's assume there's tech to put your brain in a jar.
You can rub up against other brains and get sexual pleasure.

Is it gay to rub up against a man's brain? Still feels gay to me, why? Because that brain thinks it's male despite not having a body. Furthering the mind fuck, let's say that "male" brain came out of a woman. Would it be gay then?

Oh how I've longed to be fucked in the ass by a beautifully girl.

>>6
Ethanol, crack cocaine, meth.. i'm sure there are others.

As a certified love doctor i highly suggest you write your feelings down a piece of paper like a sticky note or something, than you roll it up and shove it up your butt!