Girlfriend is mad at me because I didn't go down on her
She thinks she likely has a yeast infection but has not got that confirmed from a doctor

Am I wrong for not doing it, or is she wrong for being mad at me
what's /lounge/'s verdict?

Tell that bitch to go to the doctor. I would never put my lips on some stank pussy like that.

She's wrong for being mad, that shit would have tasted fucking gross and you could have gotten a yeast infection in your mouth. Tell her to stop being such a selfish whore and think of someone else for once.

tell ur mad bitch to sort her yeast infection and then youl eat the shit outta her cunt

>>2
She told me not to expect her to suck my dick whenever if I won't return the favor

She said some things about how it doesn't matter "Because guys don't have ph levels" - is she right or is it still gross?

I said if I suspected I had an infection I wouldn't ask her to, frankly as that's offensive.

How are you piping someone who doesn't keep that situation in order. My teen bitch knows daddy likes it clean and shaved. Might ass we'll have a bowl of oatmeal faggot.

Get rid of her asap

well im in worse situation
i can go down on my girlfriends anytime and I fuck'n love it.
but she doesnt like to blow my lil stick

>>5
You have PH levels in your mouth. And PH has nothing to do with it. It's an infection, it's bacteria. You can also make your dick upset if you fuck a vag with a yeast infection.
>>7
You probably need to shave or clean your dick, it probably stinks.

>>1,7
flawed relationships with flawed bitches. fucking abandon ship immediately. Dump her. Seriously.

>>9
You would go so far?
She's came down from America to Europe. I said to her do you really think it's that wrong or surprising that I'm not licking it until you get an all clear from gyn. Actually she just cried for a bit and walked off on her own now so obviously she does.

>>1
my girlfriend had an yeast infection, she told me to never eat her out. Chances are you'll get a throat infection, so tell her to get her pussy checked.

once you stop sucking at sex you'll never have to eat pussy again

>>8
it does not. i'm shaved and clean.
she said that my sperm tastes bitter, thats propably a reason

>>10
Yeah, she should show some consideration for your well being. She should be telling you to wait until she has the all clear, not pissed that you didn't do it.

>>7
I agree unless there's something wrong with it she needs to suck it otherwise you're not really in a relationship, she's supposed to be your girl.

I have no problem with going down on her but not right after she tells me she has an infection, jesus..would any of you guys be fine with that?

I wouldn't make her go down on me if I wasn't sure if I was clear. After just a few days of meeting she's talking about how I can't expect her to do things whenever I want, when just before that she was telling me all how she want's to be my little slave girl and do anything I ask etc. Is that a red flag?
>>8
Yeah I thought that too.

>>5
what the fuck does ph levels have to do with anything? she didn't take care of herself and fucked up yer ph balance and now she has a yeast infection. the ph levels is what keeps the bacteria from thriving and turning into an infection. but now it's an infection, i def wouldn't touch. she should go to the doctor and ask about it.

>>10
The pic is what a yeast infection in the mouth looks like. The swelling and pain in the infection. Fuck you're retarded, why don't you use fucking google.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candidiasis

>>13
Yeah eat some fruit or something.

>>1
dude if her pussy smells terrible and is nasty tell her to get it checked out, don't fucking go down on her. Also don't put your dick in it, yeast infections are hell. I got one from a nasty chick wayback, you can't jerk off for a week, it's like getting a nasty sunburn.

>>14
I agree. I think it's a bad sign actually that she would encourage it and get mad at the refusal as if I'm somehow rejecting her. She's just did the silent cry and storm off thing.

It's stupid, but not really something to break up over. Just sort it out.

>>15

is that a red flag

Bitch sounds like a sea of red flags.

>>1
You should be thankful and eat her out OP, if not for yeast infection where do you think we would get the yeast to make bread from?

>>19
Show her the facts and tell her she's a disgusting whore.
And also get a new girlfriend.

>>1
Do you want to be with her? Then you are always wrong. Period.
Do you want to be happy? She's wrong and insane. Find somebody with less of a God complex.

>>22
Or shit perhaps there's a bun in the oven?

>>1 She's a selfish and dirty cunt for expecting that of you under those circumstances, and more so by getting mad you declined.

MYSOGANY!!!!

>>5

She said some things about how it doesn't matter "Because guys don't have ph levels" - is she right or is it still gross?

She's not just wrong that fucking grade A retarded.

>>16
I thought that, just cause I haven't got a vagina with pH levels to maintain doesn't mean It's good for me to slosh my tongue or dick around in.
>>17
I get that. I reverse image searched it but assumed you were talking about her having anything on her tongue. I've rimmed her ass so I don't know why she's mad..
>>18
damn, sounds painful. It smells fine but I still agree she should get it checked or take remedies to be sure it's clear.
she just got pissed cause I didn't lick all the cream off her dildo after she'd finished playing with it.

>>1
Real talk: yeast infections are ungodly awful. They will not heal by themselves. They cause uncontrollable itching, burning, and pain non-stop until you go to a doctor. Tell her to go to a Walgreens clinic if she is concerned about time/money. Go with her if you can so she has some support.

I'm sure she was frustrated at the situation rather than being mad at you. If your dick was crusted and itching like crazy, she probably would be hesitant to suck it. Touching her in any way would have made the infection much, much worse.

Go get it cleared up, try to have rational adult conversations with her. If she freaks out, avoid all sexual contact during infections regardless. This WILL ALWAYS make her feel worse afterwards.

source: have medical condition in which I cannot have sex without contracting multiple infections.

>>1

doctor

JESUS FUCKING CHRIST, it's a fucking YEAST infection you stupid virgins, girls get them all the fucking time.

Go to the fucking drug store, buy some Micanazole and grow the fuck up already.

yeast infection is white, creamy. leaves a mess in their underwear. might be from birth control. sometimes medicine helps. sometimes it doesn't. itches like fukk too. makes girls miserable. tell her to eat more yogurt

>>29
They can easily get beyond over the counter cures depending on circumstance.

So your base level women knowledge is used to troll the only group of people you can reliably say have LESS experience than you do, good job.

>>13
Then tell her that you want to finish on her boobs or something. I also used to loathe sucking dick. Cum tastes awful, no amount of fruit will change that. And don't be an ass and "accidentally" cum in her mouth. She will become more comfortable with it if you give her time.

>>29
This could work, but laymen can never know for sure what kind of microorganism is causing the fould smell.
It might be Candida albicans (itching, burning and clear liquid), but it might also be Gardnerella vaginalis (fishy smell and foamy liquid coming out). Or even something else.

Unless she is absolutely sure she has yeast, and has had it before, and it is 100% the same symptoms, then it is adviseable to consult a physician.

I had a boyfriend for 3 years and only did oral about 3 times. I never asked him to eat me out the entire course of that relationship. So you can either bitch about her not going 5000% right away, or you can offer a compromise until she becomes more comfortable with the idea.

>>31

beyond over the counter cures

The odds of the Extra-strength over the counter stuff not being enough is pretty fucking low, and going to a doctor should be your final option anyway.

Dumbass

>>5
Of course pH levels have something to do with bacterial growth. Also yeast is not a bacteria.

>>33
It's yeast. It's almost always yeast, and there's no point wasting your time and money on a doctor.

>>28
She's rubbed a lot on my boxers/jeans and it just leaves a creamy white snail trail that goes to powder when it dries on them. She says her pussy/clit is painful with little paper cuts on them. I read up on vaginal fissures and apparently that correlates with yeast infections. She says she gets them many times a year. I told her to get vagisil, cranberry, yoghurt probiotics an some other shit i forgot the name of.

The thing is though she wasn't frustrated at the situation, she was frustrated at me- she was mad that she's sucked my dick and I've took it for granted but I have somehow 'rejected' her and shown I don't like her by refusing to lick her. She got angry right after I was playing with her with a dildo, questioning if I really like her,she wanted me to lick all the creamy discharge/lube off it.

I would not expect her to suck my dick If I thought I had some sort of bacterial infection, so I think she's in the wrong.

one home remedy is douche with apple cider vinegar. Op what kind of birth control is she on?

Didn't know you had to pay good money to see general clinicians (or practitioners?).
Are you from the USA?
It's a shame the access to medical advice is expensive, and preferably avoided because of that where you live.

>>1
Women are cunts, it doesn't matter if you're right she'll still be a bitch.

Tell her you didn't want to go down on her because you had a cold sore and were embarrassed about it, wait till her shit is fixed then tongue fuck her into a near coma.

>>34
Could I ask why you only did oral 3 times in 3 years?

I don't mean to be rude but I think I would not want to be in a relationship if I knew I would get oral 3 times in 3 years. 3 times in a week is not enough imo..

Was that a personal preference you both agreed on beforehand?

>>39
I did look at vinegar and even garlic cloves, but not tried them yet.

She's not on any form of birth control currently.

>>38
Ah, then yes. She's being irrational. Yeast infections cannot be cleared without a prescription. Yogurt, cranberry juice, and even vagisil will only kill most of the infection, not all. She needs to go see a doctor now, especially if she's had several.

>>40
It's a waste of fucking time wherever you live.

Being in a fucked up healthcare system has forced me to be more savvy and picky on when I visit the doctor. However, anybody who goes to the doctor because they THINK they might have a fucking YEAST INFECTION should be publicly beaten.

Doctors have real shit to do besides public service announcements. This waste of time slows down the entire system, effecting people who have LEGITIMATE reasons to see a doctor.

Sounds like a total bitch let her go and find a new one that will suck cock.