Help /lounge/. Married 4 years. I don't like my wife anymore.

One year into our marriage she started changing a bit, but two years was when she started treating me like shit. More and more as time went on. She only works two days a week now, and I have to do everything anyways. She complains and insults me all the time, and there's almost no sex, which isn't even that good because she's put on a lot of weight and isn't attractive at all anymore.

I want to divorce her but I know she'll get the house, and I don't want to have to pay alimony to her. It's almost not an option for me to divorce her because I'll lose everything I have.

And now she wants kids. How she goes from treating me like she does to saying she wants kids I don't know, but there's no way I'm having kids with her, so I made up excuses the last three times she's tried to have sex with me (it's been two months).

This is such a nightmare. I paid for the house by working for the money we used to buy it. I wish I could just kick her out and get on with my life but I feel trapped.

If you are going to divorce her do it now before you bring a kid into all of this.

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File bankruptcy, then divorce.

you must create a plan. a genius plan. you must somehow make your wife guilty of something and then you have a reason to divorse. you will get the house and don't have to pay shit. I read some stories on reddit or something... You can't have merci, she seems a shitty person

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She complains and insults me all the time
I paid for the house

ok, I'll bite

seems to me like you're a whipped beta faggot, you blame your sad state of affairs on your wife, but really she's just pissed because you are a nonman, if you were a man, you wouldn't take shit from her.

I speak from experience, I've also been married four years and no problems.

You need to grow a pair of testicles, anon.

Tell your boss what's going on. Allegedly get fired. Then file for divorce. you now have allegedly no income for her to take. Get the house and half of her income. Win

That's 60% of marriages for you. Do not knock her up leave first. You've already fucked up by being the more responsible person as the male in a marriage, you'll lose the same amount plus a quarter to a third of whatever you make for 18 years with a kid

I have no idea why fags want marriage. Failure rate is super high, way, way, way higher without children, the hardest worker gets fucked the most in a divorce

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Make a kik account, send her a couple of black dicks. If she likes it, try to set up an appointment. Pay a male escort, let him fuck her. Take her phone, take some screens and bam, evidence to bring in court