I was raped 2 and a half years ago by my (now ex) boyfriend. He was abusive and manipulative throughout our whole relationship and when I finally had the courage to leave him he threatened and stalked me for months. I recently reported the rape (late, I know) and a couple incidents where he had harassed me in public. The police don't give a fuck, it's been 2 months since I reported it and they still haven't even talked to him.

tl;dr I was raped and he got away with it, what do?

>>1
was it actually, legally rape, or did you start to regret it now/were you under the influence etc. are the first questions you'll be asked since it's this late

now tell us, was it

if you have no factual evidence, most of which would've gone old by now anyway, you can't win.

>>2
Yes it was legally rape. I had been under the influence the night before and was still slightly out of it the morning after but I remember every detail. I asked him to stop multiple times, I tried pulling away but he is a lot bigger than me and I was very weak from the drugs the night before. I went to hospital to get plan b after but did not tell them that it was rape at that time because I was terrified. So the only evidence is my medical records (which an officer has obtained) saying the date it happened and that I went to get plan b.

>>3
Then you should have no issues if it's a recorded case.

What were you wearing? You might have been asking for it.

A girl I went to school with was raped a few times by her brother. She didn't say anything because she didn't want him to get in trouble for it. When it did come out she came out a lot worse than him. Had to move schools while he got sent away by the parents to live elsewhere. Not much seems to be done unless it's reported straight away.

>>6
Yeah, I was encouraged to report it by my abuse counsellor and the officer basically said it's my word against his and he's obviously going to deny it so...I'm starting to regret going through with it, it's just added stress and a constant reminder of what he did to me and how great he's gonna feel when they say that the investigation was inconclusive.

>>3

I tried pulling away but he is a lot bigger than me and I was very weak from the drugs

Did he forced you to take drugs? Can you prove this?

Nobody will ever believe an addicted because addicted are not trusted both from police and jury. So what factual evidence that he drugged you/exploited your alteration state do you have?

>>7
You've done the right thing reporting it. Now it's just to do with how much evidence there is. Obviously it isn't the case here, but crying rape after a messy breakup happens a lot. It means that when a real crime has been committed it sadly gets overlooked.
Reporting it might get him to stay away though. I know you might think "he's getting away from it", but it might cut the ties and allow you to move on with your life. Any contact he has with you from now on can be used against him.

>>8
I was 17 at the time and experimenting. A friend had given me some mda and then right before we were going to leave the party my boyfriend gave me a "party pill" and I got sick and his mom picked us up and drove us to his house. I wasn't forced, only encouraged.

I told the officer this and he didn't really say much. He knew I was weak from the night before and took advantage of that but there's no real proof other than my word at this point.

>>9
I do have several other files open at the police station against him so I'm hoping after this is over with I can get a no contact order just so he legally can't contact me but if the aftermath of all this scares him off that might me enough.

>>10

but there's no real proof other than my word at this point.

Yeah that's the point, other than that a trial could be bad for you because his lawyer will surely paint you as a whorish girl, he'll imply that you are crying rape now just because he cheated on you or just because you had a bad breakup.

This kind of stuff always had a discrete grip on the jury because a lot of stupid girls actually do this effectively destroying lives and wasting money.

So, in short, I don't think you can earn something from a trial you just better move on that's my "professional" opinion, I worked with some ex prostitutes and toxic so I saw worst stories than your ending like this.

>>3
sounds like bullshit. sounds like your weak feminine mind is twisting the facts.

You were his Girlfriend which means you give consent..... sometimes my boyfriend doesn't wanna fuck but i say "come on.... " and he says "but im tired... well, whatever... fuck it... go for it"

so... thats not rape.

Maybe you're just a slut.

>>6
"few times"

yeah... omg... like... i got robbed... 37 times over the course of last year... totally.... McDonalds is such a ripoff!

>>14
What is this drivel you're espousing?

>>1
They will turn the facts against you. He doesn't even need a good lawyer for that. That's why you don't use artificials.

is this thread fucking serious?

i don't give a shit if your boyfwend raped your slutty pussy.

>>15
just saying if it happened more then once it's not fucking rape... how could you not bring a knife to bed the next time.. how could you not be prepared for something that has already came....

if i get robbed, i get a gun, or a wallet chain or at least walk home down another street.

3 times with brother... like every night at 9 pm she would roll her eyes and say "oh gosh, not again... my brother is such a perv! **giggle** he's going to "rape" me again"

weaksauce. some people actually get raped. All of these girl cry rape stories take away from legitimate sexual assaults. (you know, the real kind at knife point or gun point, the kind you fucking bleed after?)

You fucking slut.

>>17
Just because he was my boyfriend doesn't mean that my pussy was open 24/7...if your asking your girl to have sex and she says no at first but then you keep asking and she says yes well then she's given you consent, probably just to shut you the fuck up, but still consent. Screaming no over and over and trying to push someone off of you while your crying and yelling for him to stop...not consensual. I never once told him "well whatever it's ok now i guess"

>>17
You don't even know what the fuck are you talking about. Youngsters get crazy over this stuff, they feel guilty and angry and 90% of the times they don't know what to do because saying "I was raped by my brother/dad/uncle" will destroy your fucking family forever and in the end they'll probably blame you. So they shut up and they hope that the problem will fix itself.

>>18
bitch, please re-read this over and over:

All of these girl cry rape stories take away from legitimate sexual assaults. (you know, the real kind at knife point or gun point, the kind you fucking bleed after?)

You fucking slut. You are literally making the world an unsafe place for women.

Bitch.

>>19

So they shut up and they hope that the problem will fix itself.

Which is what they should do.

There should be two completely seperate categories... this bullshit "rape" where you just had unconnected sex isn't rape.. it's a bad decision on your part to not fight or scream or whatever. if you're such a pussy that you can't defend yourself from a penis, you deserve it.

But real rape is violent, okay? it happens at night when a woman walks home alone. It happens when a man holds you down and puts a knife to your throat. That's a legitimate threat of violence, not having your cobbler licked when you "weren't in the mood".

Once again, sluts.

>>20
I think you need to do a little more research on rape. MOST rapes are done by family/friends/spouses...someone you know. All rape is violent. "Rape" isn't just being picked out of an alley way with a knife to your throat and being left with mutilated genitals, sorry mate.

>>21
Violence is even psychological or economic.

Suck my dick or you are not going to get paid
Don't say nothing to mum, that's our secret.
I have friends and they'll kill your family if you don't shut up

That's rape. I agree that bullshits like "sometimes yes means no" on tumblr are cringy as fuck but you are going full retard.

Hey! Femanon here. I was raped by my ex boyfriend. I used to get drunk and pass out and he's have sex with me. I only found out by pretending to be asleep and catching him in the act. I was more annoyed at the time that no protection was involved.

>>1
I'll never understand how women expect anyone to believe them when they cry fake rape after a relationship; you know you need evidence right? Like, DNA or a rape kit? Video? Audio? Anything? No? Just your lies and butthurt(lol) after he left you? Good luck getting a conviction.

>>24
I was in a safe house for woman after I LEFT HIM because he had threatened to kill me/himself. He has an extensive history of abusing/manipulating girls and I have separate files open with any messages he has sent me or comments he's made in public so...try again plz

>>1
I feel you OP. I had been arguing with my ex wife for a few weeks about how our lives were going and how she needed to straighten up or I would be leaving and filing for divorce. The night before I left I got really drunk and told her it was over and passed out. When I came to I had no pants on and my dick hurt. It felt used. I could smell her on me.

I realized what happened and left before I had anywhere to go. I couldn't stay in my own home because she raped me, presumably for my sperm (she had been wanting a baby for years) and being there just unnerved me more than I could handle. I tried to file a report with the police that week and was told there was nothing they could do for me. Turned away from the police, not even given the chance to file a report.

Ex wife could never face up to what she did, save for the one phone call we had before I started recording all of them. In that call she taunted me about raping me. I had a breakdown at work, quit my job.

There is no justice in this world sometimes.

You were on drugs the night before and still effected by the drugs during the "rape."
No Rape Kit
Didnt tell anyone
Waited 2 and a half years
Reported it after you guys broke up
No DNA or video evidence

You waited too long only chance is if you get a confession or theres video evidence like a street camera saw it through a window. If I were you i would let it go karma will come around, plus people treat you different, like weak after they find out you were raped. Also I would like to add that im very sorry for what happened to you. You should raise awareness of sexual assault in your local area. God Bless