My girlfriend of two years wants to end our relationship. She told me last week she wanted me gone after a verbal fight. I was in the wrong mostly but it wasn't something you'd blow up over. "last straw that broke the camels back"

She is 23 and I am 27.

I moved across country with her to be near her family and haven't really found my place here. All I do is work then come home to her. I know it's smother us both. We both work full time

She had thyroid cancer a few years ago and everything seems ok now post thyroidectomy+meds. There was last two months where there was a possibility of recurrence happening but the latest blood tests show it was just a fluke?

None of her friends like and whenever there is trouble she runs to them for advice rather than trying to have calm conversations and explore the issue with me.

Their advice isn't so crazy but it's basically don't settle and fuck every guy you can.

I am idiot. I feel for her and I love her, at one time she felt the very same way but I feel like her mind is poisoned by friends, the thought of death, the thought of settling at a young age, and I am not sure what else.

We used to be very happy and I don't know how to convey to her that she is putting all her depressed feelings about things I have nothing to do with all on me. I told her exactly that and she basically said she was done.

Couldn't explain why she felt the way she did but she was done, didn't love me any more, wanted to date other guys, wasn't happy and hasn't been happy in a long time.

I love this faggot but she is misplacing her depression with life on me and I want to fix it. I don't know how. I am not perfect, I have my flaws.. she has even said "I don't deserve someone good like you" and "you don't deserve to be hurt like this" in the past week a few times.

I don't know. We still sleep in the same bed every night but she has put up a wall towards me and now wants me gone by the end of the month.

wat do

Stop being a co dependent beta

how is wanting to have a long term relationship with someone being a codependent beta

I was very independent before moving to be with her but now it does seem like I've been holding on to her while trying to find my footing here

I am starting to get it but I don't know

The bitch want to die from ebola and aids. Your well out of it.

I throw my hands up in the air sometimes,
Saying AYYYO LMAO

>>1
You have made the biggest mistake of your life.