normal introverts

1 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 18:22

Any normal-looking introverts here?

After years of being a shut-in I'm going on a pub crawl tonight.

Any tips on how to get laid?

2 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 18:43

going to a pub crawl
expecting to get laid

3 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 18:57

>>2
b-but w-why not?

4 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 19:03

If you've really been a shut in for years, don't expect to get laid.
Just try to relax, have fun, and talk to some people. If you focus too much on getting laid your night will be ruined.

5 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 19:12

>>4
this

Go have fun - i get laid when i dont want to - never the other way around

6 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 19:24

>>1
its all confidence, you can say the cheesiest bullshit in the book but if you have the attitude to play it off you'll come across as funny instead of sad or weird.

7 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 19:35

>>4
>>5
I guess I will do that.
There was actually a period of my life when I was 17-20 when I wasn't a shut-in and actually had friends.

Is it not awkward with a lot of extroverted people? Would I feel excluded?

8 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 19:44

is it normal if someone comes alone to these things? I'm going alone and am worried it will come off as weird

9 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 19:55

>>7
why label with extrovert / introvert? its basicly just the difference between talking about everything including yourself (extrovert) or waiting to speak until its a subject that you have something to contribute with (introvert)

being introvert isnt a fucking mental disease. stop whining, go have fun, talk with atleast a few people

10 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 20:07

>>9
I'm not whining, but usually the few extroverts talk to a lot of people and get laid and all the people gravitate them.

11 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 20:19

>>10
stop whining

12 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 20:28

>>10
look up youtube videos on "mystery method"
and rsdnation, especially the "hard case newbie" videos :) enjoy

13 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 20:37

>>8
"Don't worry about it"
Remember those words.
If you don't have someone to bring, who cares? Stop fucking worrying. That's probably a big reason why you have trouble with people, you worry too much. Whenever you worry about something just think "who gives a fuck"?
Get out of your damn head and out into the world. Shut off all of your worrying and the voice in your head saying everything that's wrong. That's what I want you to do tonight. Just have fun.

14 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 20:56

>>13
That's actually true.
Thanks anon, I will do just that. Maybe I'll even get laid and fuck it who cares.

15 Name: Anonymous : 2014-12-06 21:14

>>14
you're not going to get laid. Its a fucking pub crawl and you'll probably be awkward as fuck.

Just have a few beers, and sit on that nicely buzzing level. Appreciate stuff and just have a laugh