I met this girl and we got along very well. We had hours long conversations every day, we laughed together, we talked shit, etc etc. Everything was great, except she was just breaking up with her boyfriend so things were a bit tricky and she said shit like it is all going a bit too fast etc. and she needs time for herself before she wants another relationship but everything was still going well, we still met daily, started kissing and all that shit... So long story short: I kind of fucked her and since then everything is fucked up... she said she just wants to be friends with me and it was all going way too fast and we didn't even really know each other and whatever. That was like 4 or 5 weeks ago and since then we didn't meet at all, we text every now and then but that's it. She texted me shit like she realised that she only finds me sexually attractive but she hasn't any feelings for me apart from that, even though she clearly does, atleast she did before I licked her pussy and covered her with cum...

So wtf... how do I fix this shit? Why is everything now so complicated just because I put my peepee in her vagoo?
Help pls?

typical girl these days. fuck her, ignore her for a while and she will love you

>>1
Keep fucking her, otherwise don't act couple with her and start looking around for other people and let her know you're looking around because she wasn't interested, she'll get feels. Now post nudes.

You fucked her and you're terrible in bed, now she wants nothing to do with you.

>>1
Ok listen fagit. If a bitch REALLY wants you she will never have an excuse not to fuck/be with you. You should have never even talked about being in a relationship, just always keep conversations sexual with tension. 100% ignore her texts for a few weeks. Make no contact. Act like you don't give a fuck and if she still wants the D she WILL be hitting your phone up. After a week or 2 you can text back but act like nothing happened, you just been busy.

TBH if she started wanting to be your friend AFTER you fucked, that means you were a bad fuck or had a small dick. Or both. Also she probably sees you as a beta fagit for eating her pussy on the first fuck.

>>3
For the love of god DO NOT let her know you're looking around because she wasn't interested. Make her believe your fucking other bitches but do NOT bring up how she wasn't interested in having a relationship. Act like it never happened and always be in a good mood around her. Only be around her or talk to her for short times then IGNORE, IGNORE, IGNORE.

>>1
Tell her you are into her for real and want to try for a relationship. Girls want an aha wulf who knows what he wants, they don't want ifs or maybes, they want someone who acts.

op... you have a small dick... sorry

>>6
Making her think you moved on straight away like it wasn't difficult will fuck with her insecurities, making her want to prove herself to him. If he fucks her but makes it clear that he's just using her for sex and is going elsewhere for an actual relationship she'll either date someone else in which case she's a slut and good riddance, or she'll start getting clingy and trying to stop him seeing other people. Acting like it didn't happen is childish bullshit, acting like it happened but he moved on straight away because she didn't mean shit will fuck with her more.

>>7
Stay alone forever. You never say try unless you're pretty much already in a relationship with them. "try" is an if/maybe, it's indecisive and pathetic. Either do or do not, there is no try. Girls don't know what they want, we all know they secretly want their dads so emulate their dads or be a stereotypical "badboy" who acts good just for them. There's a reason 50 shades and twilight sold out, they want an abusive borderline rapist/stalker but it isn't PC to admit it.

>>7
I don't think that would work. Like I said it was too much, too fast for her. Her last relationship was almost 3 years long so she would have needed some time to end that shit. I just shouldn't have been so impatient... It all was good before we "fucked". It was a bit rapey also so maybe she doesn't trust me anymore. lel

>>9
In my experience letting a girl know you moved on because she rejected you just makes them feel like they have the power, and like there is no challenge to get/keep you. She'll feel like she can have you whenever she wants. Do what you feel OP.

>>11
Then freaking talk about it with her. You do know girls want one thing, to talk about shit.

>>11
Well OP 90% of guys get friend zoned for NOT making the first move and fucking quick enough. I don't think just fucking her too early was the problem.

Same thing happened to me.

Bitch is now "ignoring" me. Giving me passive aggressive bullshit, and i know she's talking shit about what she's doing to me behind my back.

I just decided to ignore her for a couple of weeks.Even if she contacts me, ill keep on ignoring her.

Am i doing the right thing?

>>15
that is exactly what you should do. let them wait. they all want the D anyway

>>1
Stop talking with her, you're feeding the attention whore inside her.

The faster you stop, the faster she comes back waving her tail...

>>17
Its true.

Last time i ignored this bitch for two weeks she was nice as hell to me when i decided to talk to her again. Damn.

>>1
Depends op. How long did you know her for?

>>18
I'm pretty sure she was about to really end her relationship with her boyfriend, but since you fucked her, she got what she wanted, and is even able to continue with her relationship...

You would do the same in a similar situation.

Let time remember she, that her relationship is shit, than, she'll come back to you, and in this moment, you're the one giving the cards...

Play cool, ignore her a bit, stop messaging her, and wait to answer, she will see you're not there for granted, and will suddenly see there is a "connection with you", she will miss you, and all that shit she isn't feeling right now, because with a simple call, you would be there ready to fuck her...

Long story short, turn the table, play hard to get, and stay there till you're the one who decides if she is good enough for you...

>>17
Yea that's what I did first after she told me that she just wanted to be friends and whatever. I didn't talk to her for 2 weeks or so and then she texted her and we talked a bit and the next day she wanted to meet me but I had no time. I guess it kind of worked but not really... maybe I fucked it up again though by asking a few days later if she wants to meet me and she said she had no time so I got very mad.

I have no idea what it is with this girl that makes me act like a fucking retard... I never had such problems before.

She said shit like she can't get me out of her head and many other things that make me sure that she is slowly falling in love with me and suddenly everything changed because I wanted to fuck her. Wat?!

She doesn't want to jump back into a relationship. Her friends are all probably telling her she needs to date around and she is conflicted. Keep playing cat and mouse and put your dick in her if you can and she will come around. But if you come across as needy and jealous, you will push her away. source: oldfag with a lot of relationship experience

>>21
The basic rule is that you shouldn't care. If she wants to play games, don't play them and just ignore her. Cuz trust me, if you do, she will win.

Just ignore her for two weeks. Set a timer.

If she messages you during those two weeks, ignore it.

After the two weeks have passed, either reply to one of her old messages, or just send her a short message yourself. Then ignore her again for a few days.

Repeat and shorten the interval between messages and you'll be good.

I'm doing the same thing as well.

Remember that its key to keep ignoring her. I failed doing this a couple of times and had to reset the two week times again.

Fucking bitches right..

>>23
Also, key is not being too eager.

For instance, i ignored this bitch for a week. she contacted me asking if i wanted to hang out. Sure, well hang out. We had a fun time. And guess what, the next day i decided to message her and she went right back to ignoring me.

Fuck
dat
shit.

>>1
So, just have a relationship with no strings attached and fuck here every now and then, pussyboy

>>2
This anon speaks wisdom. Make it very clear you're living a great life w/o her, enjoying your time, maybe even flirting with other girls. She'll be teeming with jealousy and jump back onto your dick in no time.

Girls only want what they perceive they can't have... they don't want to be missing out. If you're the thing that she thinks she's missing out on, you'll become that much more attractive to her.

A lot of good advice in this threat that OP will never take. He will get mad at her when she doesn't respond and be a dick and she will move on and fuck someone else. He will always wonder "what if"

>>1
OP everyone here is trying to get you worth her, but maybe take time to consider she just realized she might not like you like that and she was just really in a bad spot and wanted to forget.

you should consider moving on and finding another girl, because odds are, she's already over it. Never NEVER put your life on hold for anyone.

>>1
Fucking bullshit. Stop trying to convince yourself and all the other fags here that you like pussy. In a few hours your gonna post your dick and ask other guys to rate it and then other guys are going to post theirs an you all are going to fap to each other's dicks. Fucking faggots

>>27
Good! Females can do it very well. its a skill men should start learning how to move on quickly. Does it solve anything to be stuck on someone who forgot about you a long time ago. We should be moving forward with time, not dwelling on kissing some female a few times and hanging yourself up on her. it isn't what nature intended for us, why do you think anons kill themselves over girls they lost years ago?

Anon just move on. if she comes back you will know. there is no what if, if she never came back

>>27
Yea I guess you're exactly right...