can't stand it anymore /lounge/!

I'm nearing 30 years old and I haven't had sex in over a year. I missed that whole dating phase. I went from being the party guy, having lots of friends leading to casual after party hookups or FWB stints but only 1 real girlfriend who turned out to be a liar and a cheater. Now I'm facing my late 20's and don't know how to meet women, let alone bed them. I'm not looking for a relationship yet, just some hookups to bide the time. Maybe I'm too desperate or ugly but I've hooked up with decent girls in the past

Tear me apart /lounge/... or give me advice. whatever