I'm a victim of a sexual assault, rape, I'm a dyke, a butch and I was raped by a straight white man a few years back, so you could imagine how this was really a shitty situation for me.

I loathed that guy for maybe a few months then I realized that it's not that much big of a deal, YES, I got over it and became more careful throughout the years, what he did was obviously wrong and I will hate him forever for it cause I trusted that person but when I looked at it objectively, this isn't something that should be more serious than a robbery or violent assault, why do we as a society think that this is extremely devastating? I mean I got fucked by someone I didn't want to be fucked, what's the big deal? why do people expect that I'm broken person after the fact? Is anything wrong with me for thinking that this was a trivial matter? as trivial as a friend suddenly punching me in the face cause he hated me for example?

You know what's weird OP? You're trying so hard to convince us that you're not broken and devastated. But who are you really trying to convince? I'm sorry you were hurt. Let me tell you this though: Whether or not other people look down on you is pretty irrelevant. What matters is what you think of yourself. What matters is how you cope with your own insecurities. If you're comfortable with yourself, other people will be comfortable with you. I know what it's like to feel like a sore thumb sticking out some times. Good luck.

>>1 good point. If you get your ass kicked by someone no one says you are traumatized for life right? You just got your ass beat. But if you get raped it's supposed to fuck you up for years or for good. wtf is the difference? Personally I mean I would rather get raped then all busted up.

>>2
For example, if your assertion that you're unbroken was really so solid, you probably wouldn't turn to 4ct /lounge/ for reassurance.

>>1
Yeah. You're not actually a woman who was raped. No person would actually compare being raped to a robbery. That's like saying "I'm not a person, I'm a jewelry box. Its okay."

>>3 Exactly what I feel, why is it this way? I mean is it because we're still unconsciously in a puritan phase that we treat that if it's related to sex then it's above violence?

I mean I got fucked by someone I didn't want to be fucked, what's the big deal

If i got raped i'd be pretty pissed and it would be a real big deal for me, but i'm a guy so i guess its different.

Getting raped as a man is ansulting to your manhood, and pretty much would destroy who you are to the core.

But i agree with you, rape should be charged like of form of assault/physical violence

because feminism.
guys don't get the uber pity card for being raped you know.

>>1 Nothing wrong with you op.You are not broken(what does that even fucking mean?) We escalate sex to an all important level because we are told by politicians, nonprofits, education and the media that this is so. We are told that because it is useful for the economic and political exploitation of those issues. Rape and some other crimes have been taken over by politics. So we hear a never ending stream of information about how it is the greatest of horrors.This is because some want to make it a cultural and social issue rather than an individual crime. Again this is just to exploit the issue.

>>5
I would rather get unwillingly fucked again than someone steal my 6 years worth of savings, umad?

What if you didn't know the guy, and had to worry for 6 months you got AIDS, and what if you got pregnant and didn't believe in abortion, and what if you were a sensitive person, like non-butch girls are?

>>7
Unless you have been raped or molested you can't really talk, its not like getting beat up you faggots and you cant imagine the feeling unless you go through it.

If OP isn't b8ing then on some level i agree with the fact that you shouldnt be scarred for life and broken for the rest of eternity, but making it as simple as being punched as a friend is underplaying it quite a bit.

>>1
So were you a dyke after the rape or before the rape? Obvious if you're homosexual you're already damaged, so not like much more damage he coulda done there anyways.

>>12

Unless you have been raped or molested you can't really talk

Go fuck yourself you whale.

1) i wasn't talking about op or any women's rape, i was talking about my reaction to it if it happened to me

2) op is asking, who the fuck do you think you are to tell us who should and shouldn't contribute to her thread ?

3) go back to tumblr you fat piece of human garbage

//What if you didn't know the guy,//

I'd still be pissed.

//nd had to worry for 6 months you got AIDS//

I would worry for 6 months if I get aids.

//and what if you got pregnant and didn't believe in abortion//

I already believe in abortion, so I don't know how to answer this.

// and what if you were a sensitive person, like non-butch girls are?//

Being a butch removes your sensitivity? In fact, I feel that being raped as a lesbian butch is far worse than being raped as a straight woman, 1st of all, there would be no way in hell for me to at least enjoy it, second, as a butch, I have fabricated my own "manhood" in which I take pride upon, I see my self as a dominant person, and getting sexually pinned down by another straight man in which I see them as a competition could be the most degrading thing that could happen to me.

I don't get the point of the shitty hypotheticals though, might as well add "what if it was a dinosaur that raped you!? maybe then you won't get over it!!"

>>14
Have you been raped? My guess is that you haven't been(inb4 lie) and yet you tell others that they can't speak to it unless they have been raped as you privilege yourself to having an opinion on it.

>>15
what if you knew how to greentext?

I've been raped when i was 8 years old, and i think this one of the reason why i am still a (nearly) virgin loner with no reason to live at 18 years old.
But i could be wrong.

>>16
I dont really care what you think, but think about it, you cant talk about an experience you have never felt, its just fucking autistic. Ask someone in the military what its like to see someone die in front of you, or actually being shot at, and see how they feel about people who say get over it or pretend theyve been through a similar situation. (Analogy for you troll fags, not a comparison so fuck off)
>>14
lmao you have some anger in you since you have obviously never seen a girl's boobies other than off the internet you virgin betafag. Go get ignored by another girl then an hero

>>19

adhominem vs my arguments.

Congrats, you proved yourself to be a real tumberite.

muh feels

Go die

Be nice OP and follow the rules and /lounge/ will be nice to you.

If you want to pull the female advantage, a display of tits is necessary. After all, there are no females on the internet until timestamp and tits are shown.

You could have posted you are a guy raped by a guy, which is emotionally correct. We didn't ask you to ask for female privilege, dyke or not.

>>14
and unless you got shit kicked out of you faggot you can't talk.
Yeah when getting beaten to shit you don't fear for your life. Only when being raped that happens.
lol
also how many people get life long debilitation or killed from a mean fucking as opposed to being kicked, punched, stabbed, bludgeoned, or shot?
pic related it's you

>>20
confirmed fedora fag lmao, you salty that you cant even talk to a girl without them thinking youre an inbred creep? Lose about 300 lbs then maybe you might have a small chance once you get over your micropenis issues.
Have your mom bring you down another set of hotpockets and pepsi's as you cry yourself to sleep tonight in your basement as you think about all the fucking girls that nevr have and will talk to you

>>14 From my personal experience, getting the crap kicked out of you by 3 guys is def worse than getting raped.
I wasnt raped though, just got beaten to a pulp.

>>1 I find it hard to call it trivial but yeah you're right in pointing out how victimization can also harm people as well. Most people don't think of that. They just go hyper ohmahfuckinggoddeathpenalty for transgression. The stupidest and loudest people steer the discussion typically. Can't wait to check out of this world because it's a piece of shit thanks to people like that.

>>15
Well, op.

I don't think anyone can give you an answer but i agree >>9

Rape became politicised, and is used to push an agenda, thats one of the reasons why it gets so much more attention than other crimes.

Sadly i feer that it will only get worse ans the definition of "rape" gets stretched to insanity by some nut job feminazis.

We already have drunk rape and stare rape....

I'm pretty sure will get opinion rape, feel rape...

It is good you were raped.

>>25
Sucks /lounge/r, hope they eat shit for it down the road. I say either get jacked and beat them the fuck up, or hack their computers and just fuck them over

>>24
Yet, you still give no argument ....
You can't really change somones opinion by insult and muh feels over here, this isn't tumblr.

You just look like an angry idiot