long story short i've been with a girl for a few months and she's been having an affair with her ex and possibly other guys.

i found out by checking her phone while she was distracted and one time she got a text from a guy saying "hey baby" or some shit

so we've talked and she deleted all her apps and she's not supposed to be cheating anymore but she still won't let me see her cellphone.

examples:

i asked her if i can try the game she's playing and she won't trust me holding her phone unless she can see the screen and threw a big fit because of this until i gave up.

hides her phone under her pillow when she sleeps
she always brings it to the bathroom and never leaves it unattended, and when i grabbed her phone while she was in the bathroom earlier she freaked out and threatened to call the cops

im not looking for advice on how to dump her or anything, that is my personal problem. i rather discuss openly about the subject and share with other people who have similar experiences so we can learn from each other.

TL;DR: if your girl doesnt show you her phone does it mean 100% she's cheating?

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she's not supposed to be cheating anymore

hahahahahaha you dumb cuck. once a cheater always a cheater, she'll never quench her insatiable lust for nigger cocks and the only thing you'll get from this relationship is suffering and AIDS. Break up with her now, let her go be a whore and find someone who can keep a dick out of her mouth for longer than 30 seconds.

IF she had nothing to hide she wouldn't be hiding. You're getting fucked harder than she is..probably

No it doesn't automatically mean she's cheating.
It means it is her phone, her property, so fuck off and respect her privacy.
What her previous cheating means is that she is a cheating whore and cannot be trusted.Once a cheater, always a cheater when she is going behind your back like that. Her cheating wasn't some "drunk accident".It was planned and thought out with another person.

So yes, she is probably cheating on you again.

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Girls lie all the time and talk to multiple guys. Fuck bitches. The one will find you eventually.

I assure you, she's fucking A LOT of dudes.

having a girlfriend
owning a nsa tracking device worse than this computer

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You dense motherfucker. All girls that aren't fucking hideous get random motherfuckers trying to come on to them. If the only evidence you have is a text from someone else with no replies, you're being an overly possessive freak.

Maybe she isn't trying to hide anything; maybe she just doesn't like being fucking interrogated.

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Alright, I guess the spotlight is on me.

So, she was with some guy and his parents kicked her out, so she has been swinging from guy to guy for material support (place to live, car etc.) until they kick her out because they found out she is cheating or just because of her nasty attitude with her fake boyfriends, then we met.

at first, she would always be on the phone with him, talk about him, even when we were at my friends house she would get mad at me for nothing then call her ex until my friend told her to stop because it wasn't normal, which upset her.

she'd ask me to drive her to go see him, at first she didn't even tell me who he was but i noticed some pictures of them and caught on right away, although i didn't imagine it would go so deep, i didnt think much of it yet.

once she went in his house with him to get some paper and it took 20 minutes before she came back outside while i waited in the car

once she even asked me if we could bring him with us to the country house. obviously i refused. she would get mad at me for no reason and call him and said stuff like i love you and shit

this stuff was in the beginning, then it calmed down, and i started school, that's when it started again.

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if your girl doesnt show you her phone does it mean 100% she's cheating?

No but it's a very good indicator and means she does not trust you.

If you're so paranoid/distrustful of your gf that you're not okay with her having private communications, the relationship isn't going to be successful anyway.